James wrote:
I'm 34 but 9 out of 10 people could never guess that just by looking at
me. Once I start talking, I guess I sound like such a square or
something they think I must be older than I look. I've been mistaken
for as young as 22, and being Asian myself I seem able to accurately
guage another Asian's age by a kind of "compensation" which I don't
apply to folks of other races.
I wonder if being much less hairy than other races contributes to the
impression of youth...surely the skin quality is just different when
your body's not trying to grow hair and peach fuzz? (Blacks have that
problem especially; black women are more susceptible to acne or
something because their skin tends to want to grow little soft wispy
hairs.) I think our facial features also give that impression we
don't have the "overhanging brows" which can make one seem like Old Man
Winter or Father Time or something like that. A flatter face probably
also suggests youth babies aren't known for their protruding facial
features, after all!
Heh, I've seen Irish women aged 24 that I swear looked older than me when I
was in my 40s. Everyone else thought they were too. When I was 42 I was
being proofed for age in clubs (21 was the age) these women were not being
proofed. Now that I'm 55, I'm proofed for senior citizen people
universally think I'm in my 30s. I'm Tatar. Yup, never heard of shaving
legs (somehow, that makes me feel sick, like it's disgusting...) or any of
that. Scanty eyebrows too. I use make up when I go out to make MORE
eyebrow, LOL. My father, in his 90s was strong as a bull still, had a full
head of hair died of the damned flu basically cause he felt too hot and
went outside in 5 degree F weather to shovel snow. The black women I
generally see, very dark ones, look a lot younger than they are and they
don't have acne or much hair at all on their bodies, including their arms
and legs. I think the whites are the hairy ones.
It is also possible, for European Americans, that we are getting a really
false impression because they have a thing about lying about their age.
That is, we hear someone is in her 40s, or she's 39 but really, she's in
her late 50s. That could contribute to the idea that they ALL seem to look
old for their age. But I have personally seen white women in their 30s that
looked older than me and everyhone else thought they were too, it wasn't
just my eyesight.