cofarb wrote:
I was part of the late 60s revolt against being forced to wear
skirts/dresses to school.
I wore skirts constantly back in the 80s, when I first started working.
I developed my aversion after my kids were born, and my stomach
expanded and never went back to 23 inches. :)
For years since and until recently, every time I've tried on skirts,
the waist has been too tight for comfort and appearance (you get that
bunched up look). But I'm glad I tried again: today's skirts seem to be
more generous in the waist area, and/or are made of stretch. And maybe
I've also lost a bit around the waist lately. Hmmm.
I got back into wearing skirts a couple years
ago, and now am way more likely to wear a skirt/dress than pants or shorts.
A big part of my switch back to skirts is that I am nearing 40 and I
just feel that shorts (except for athletic activities or working around
the house) are no longer the look I want to achieve and present to the
world. I have good legs and don't mind showing them off, but shorts
look too dressed down for where my style is headed lately.
It also doesn't help that the shorts I look best in are those that have
a 3 inch inseam (anything longer makes my legs look incredibly stubby).
All the shorts on the market these days with that inseam are designed
for juniors who not only want short shorts, but an ultra low rise.
Yuck. Totally wrong look for me! I want a regular rise (just below or
at the belly button) but with 3inch inseam. Very hard to find. I've
given up and am opting for skirts and skorts instead!!
They really *are* so much more comfortable in hot weather. And in messy,
cold weather, they don't drag in the slush as pants do. And of course there
is the fabulousness of being able to wear great kneehigh boots.
I have two pairs of kneehigh boots for cold weather: a gorgeous pair
of winish brown leather boots, and a pair of black suede boots. I
*love* the suede ones (very lightweight and comfy), but found I didn't
wear them as often as I thought, because the weather was so crappy this
year. Oh well... there's always next year!
It took me awhile to get used to seeing myself in skirts but I love them
now.
This morning, day 8 and with my skirt challenge over, I put on a pair
of white linen pants to wear to work. They looked funny to me!! I
really can't believe I'm saying this, but I think I may actually look
taller and my legs less stubby in skirts rather than pants. So I
switched out to a blue cotton straight wrap skirt that falls below the
knee and has matching embroidery stitching along the bottom 1/3 of it
(hard to explain this skirt it's from last year and I have worn it
before a few times). The skirt looked better to my eye than the pants.
Most of mine are shortabove the knee. I love the freedom of leg
movement. (I'm so short that long skirts may drag me down and make me look
like I'm playing dressup in Mom's clothes.)
I am finding that I can manage almost any length, provided the cut is
just *exactly* right. Like you, I never thought long, ankle length
skirts worked, until I found this pencil straight black wool skirt that
fit like a dream from waist down. That made all the difference not
having all that extra fabric around the hips.
The safest length is, of course, knee length. I'm liking the Aline
skirts in particular at knee length. I also have one or two skirts that
are somewhere between knee length and ankle, and these work just fine
too for some reason.
With that said, like you, above the knee has always been my favorite of
all!! But, for work, I feel like I need just a bit more length, at
least at the knee.
There are so many styles that
I'd guess that almost anyone can find a flattering skirt. Mine range from
fitted wraps Alines to pleated wrap styles to gathered (dirndls?).
I think that is very true right now. There's a ton of options out there
to choose from, something for everyone. Which is what tempted me to try
and buy. Then I just needed to force myself to actually *wear* what I
bought!
jen