I! wrote:
O.k. if I ever needed your help, I do now. I really value your
opinions.
I'm going to 2 office parties this Xmas. One is not yet
defined/either on a
winter boat cruise or jazzy hotel and the other at a banquet hall.
I'm new at this workplace and absolutely want to make an awesome
impression.
I want to look elegant/sexy/and not wear black if possible.
Okay, I have to say for an office party sexy is probably not the effect
you want to go for. Elegant yes. But tread carefully about the sexy
part. Sexy and office do not mix.
Can you give us a little more detail about the type of work you do and
your position within the company? I think that makes a difference.
For example, I dress differently for my DF's office parties than for my
own. He works in academia, so when we're invited to the stuffy parties
with tenured professors and department heads, I'll opt for something
conservative, such as dress pants with a cropped jacket with satin tie
in the front. When we attend his parties that are more for the younger
student crowd, I'll put on something more youthful that shows a little
more skin, like my little black dress.
For my office parties it's completely different. Since I'm in
management, I am sensitive to the image I want to project at these
parties. For example the CEO might invite us to his mansion, along with
the company investors and board of directors. For such an affair, I'll
go dressy but conservative. I have this perfect dress that is a
gorgeous shade of red, long sleeve, vneck, empire waist with Aline
kneelength skirt. Since the skirt is Aline, it doesn't cling so it's
not too sexy. But the color is what's great it makes me stand out,
and for December, red is particularly festive.
I'm a size 6 and
pretty proportional. Should I go short, long, I don't like strapless
anything. Does that help? My colouring favours cool colours and I'm
getting
my hair done a burgundy/auburn type colour by then.
I'm seeing you in emerald green, a hot color this year. I saw this
gorgeous cap sleeve dress:
http://www.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=40109&CategoryID=1141
If you're in management or aiming for it, I personally like this type
of look:
http://www.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=40379&CategoryID=1141
Or instead of a dress, consider a cashmere sweater with festive skirt,
such as this; even though the skirt is more clingy than you might want
for an office party, I think it works because it's paired with the
sweater so not as formal or too revealing. Not to mention, for the boat
party, the sweater would keep you warm:
http://www.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=40328&CategoryID=1141
If your office is really casual, you might want to ask around as to
whether the other women will be wearing dresses or not. If everyone
seems to be opting for pants instead, what about something like this:
http://www.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=32318&CategoryID=1141
I only checked bloomies because they seem to be the only store that is
showing a wide range of holiday wear this early, but you get the idea.
Oh and if you go with a dress, consider this coat to go over it. I
think this coat is fabulous:
http://www.bananarepublic.com/browse/product/258/product_258935.htm?cs_catalog=BR%5FFall2%5FH1%5F2004&cs_category=2016
Have fun and let us know what you end up wearing!
jen